********** “I’m alone, not lonely,” I’d say to myself repeatedly. But who am I trying to deceive? Sometimes when I’m all by myself, I get a positive vibe. I’d travel the world in my mind, lecture in many top universities in the world and even have fun with my unborn kids. That’s totally fine with me. I find please in my solitude. What I hate is …
I was sad when I read that article. After reading it, I told myself this could have been avoided with the patient charter. That’s how important this topic is to me. My mum was sick and visited the hospital. On her return I asked her about the diagnosis and to my surprise she said she …
My commandment is this – to love one another just as I have loved you. John 15:12 (NET) We all understand love differently. We experience it in diverse ways and so we have no one true definition for it. Each and everyone of us attach different meanings to it. Base on our understanding, from the …
As I stood at the bus stop waiting for a “trotro” a driver’s mate asked me where I was going. I told him where I was going and since it was not in his direction he decided to get on my nerves. “You will still be here when I come back, old woman.” Wait did …
“You won’t understand what I mean now, but someday you will: the only trick of friendship, I think, is to find people who are better than you are—not smarter, not cooler, but kinder, and more generous, and more forgiving—and then to appreciate them for what they can teach you, and to try to listen to …
Reading on slavery and a visit to the slave Castle may produce the same emotions but the intensity of these emotions differ, trust me. My recent visit to the Elmina castle in Cape Coast produced mixed feelings. It is the year of return in Ghana and my tour group comprised of many black Americans from …
“A heart bereft of stubborn will that takes the counsel of the wise is the only legitimate truth to overcome the downfall of a man” I don’t know about you but this “I told you so” words have the tendency to change the dimensions and contours of a face, to that of a volcano filled …
Let me confess, writing on this topic feels crazy. Please take a deep breath and follow me on a topic we still shy away from. What’s this sexual survival about? I went to #All Needs supermarket to get a few items. As I lifted a shopping basket, a gentleman offered to help me carry it …
Friend: Bridget, why don’t you give that guy we met at the filling station a chance? (She said with a smile which was as bright as the diamond on her wedding ring.) Oh yeah, she continued, knowing you, I’m sure you want a man who has done his PHD. Me: Oh I already have a …
My parents sent me to a boarding school when I was six years. They were expecting something good from me but whenever I went home with my terminal report card, it’s either “talkative or more room for improvement” written at the teacher’s remarks. I guess if I had any aspirations it was one as simple as ABCD. In the final term of primary 3, only those with good handwriting would be allowed to migrate from writing with pencil to pen. That was the beginning of the studios me.